voke Potential, LLC Newsletter – Vol: 3 – September 2012
Is your Emotional Bank Account overdrawn? What are you doing to make deposits in the Emotional Bank Accounts of those most important to you?
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
To honor Stephen R. Covey, who recently passed away, this month’s newsletter focuses on his concept of the “Emotional Bank Account” that plays out in all of our lives and relationships each and every day. He truly left a legacy with his many leadership principles that will stand the test of time.
The Emotional Bank Account is a metaphor for the amount of trust that exists in relationships – both personal and professional. Deposits build and repair trust. Withdrawals break down and lessen trust. Everyone is an accountant. We track the deposits and withdrawals that others make with us, and they do the same with us.
Examples of deposits:
Examples of withdrawals:
Our accounts with the people we interact with on a regular basis require constant investment. Building and repairing relationships takes time and effort. There are sometimes automatic withdrawals in our daily interactions with others or in their perceptions of us that we aren’t even aware of.
The cost of withdrawals is very high and can lead to devastating results:
That’s why it’s so important to make regular deposits with those we care about most – family, friends, team members, etc. If we ensure that our accounts with others are consistently at a surplus, then we avoid being overdrawn in those relationships, and they will be there for us when we need them.
For a strong Emotional Bank Account with others:
Coaching can help you put these ideas into practice to increase your Emotional Bank Account with others.
Evoke Potential, LLC can help you…
“We first make our habits, then our habits make us.”
– Anonymous
“The only way to build trust professionally or personally is by being trustworthy.”
– Gerard Arpey, CEO, American Airlines
“If you want to retain those who are present, be loyal to those who are absent.”
– Stephen R. Covey
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